Headquarter Happenings

“I followed Him and learned….”

Five men from all stages of deputation, furlough, and pastoral ministries shared lessons they have learned as they followed Christ.

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Special Speaker

One of our missionaries is on furlough from the Middle East. His name has been omitted for security purposes, and the recording is unavailable.

Lessons from my family:

• If you can’t talk of your struggles with others in the missions family, you can’t do so anywhere.
• Church doesn’t have to be a big building.
• As a missionary kid, you’re always a stranger wherever you go.
• God’s ways aren’t ours. I wanted my life to go a certain way before we went to the field. But I gained and became a better person.
• You can make a place you really don’t like into a home.
• People everywhere are basically the same.

Lessons from Peter:
Christ called Peter to follow Him at the beginning of his ministry. In the middle of his ministry, Christ reminded Peter to continue to follow Him, in spite of what others may be doing. At the end of his ministry, Peter was still following Christ and growing in grace. In following God, there will be amazing things you will do, but you may be terrified. Follow anyway. It is better to be terrified following God than terrified walking alone.

Frank Camp

Note: Part of point one is missing from the recording due to technical issues. 

If you truly follow Christ, you will do so when others are not, when things are difficult, and when others have it easier. You will learn that God changes your perspective. You will see God give clarity through many prayers. You will see His compassion for people. You will learn He can call you to a specific place. You will experience His care for your provisions. You will know His calm of peace. You will have His confidence in placement.

Tim Germano

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Be faithful. Guard your time with Christ. Realize it’s not about you, it’s all about Him. We are not the treasure; we are just a worthless box holding the treasure. When people are looking for treasure they are not enamored by the box. When we realize this truth, we will be the missionary God desires. Realizing this truth takes the pressure off of us. We can then be free to faithfully serve and watch Him work through us. When we realize this truth, we can get out of the way and let Him work.

Seth Folkers

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The writer of Hebrews encourages us to follow the faith of the older generations, considering the end of their lives. What you look to is the direction you will go. We must have goals. But we must keep our eyes on the Lord Himself, rather than on our own goals, even if we have a good godly goal. Otherwise, we will seek to reach the goal in our own way. Joshua had his eyes set on the goal of conquering Ai, and failed to consider God’s method. Joseph had a dream from God, and never forgot it, but focused on serving God and others and allowed God to make the dream a reality.

Russ Bell

God says what He means and backs up what He says. When you do what He says, He will do the rest. God often carries us through the fire that we may comfort others. When you are in His way He will lead you. Don’t dwell on the former things, but allow God to do a new thing in you. Don’t put God in a box or make Him a servant to your plans. You are His servant. Don’t be afraid for Him to change your direction. I’ve learned that God is faithful and true, and that is all I need to know.

Family Fellowship Week is about more than just preaching! Our desire is for it to be a place of fellowship where we can feed your soul, familiarize you with our staff, and allow you to focus on our commitments to each other. Darleen Whetstone spoke to the ladies and was accompanied by Rebecca Rinard, who illustrated the lesson with chalk art. Bill Wingard and Danny Whetstone gave a session on Ministry Principles. We also had a Q&A time where Danny Whetstone and John O’Malley answered questions from the audience.

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Principles and Practices, Part One
Bill Wingard

Principles and Practices, Part Two
Danny Whetstone

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Two Peas in a Pod
Darleen Whetstone

God promises that if we follow Him, He will make us into what He desires. The disciples followed straightway. As ladies, too often we do not want to follow until we have proof the plan will work out. We must trust that He is at work. Two peas in a pod spend time together and are very much alike. Our relationship with Christ must be the same. Our priorities must be right. We can’t see the whole picture but must trust that God is in control. Our prayers must be constant. They should include thanksgiving as well as asking for blessings. We must trust that God has a plan. His plan for each of us is unique. Don’t try to do His job, just do yours. Sow the seed and let the Holy Spirit work and give the increase. When our priorities are in line and our prayers are going up, the plan God has for us will bring pleasure to Him.

Ministry Principles
Bill Wingard and Danny Whetstone

Principles vs. Rules

• We prefer to operate by principles, not by rules. There are settings where rules are needed. But when we are working with adults, principles should be sufficient.
• If God called you to this level of ministry to go out on your own, we trust you have developed the maturity to get started. We want you to carry out your ministry as best you can under God’s direction.
• Leaders have witnessed what you have not. It will save you heartache if you pay attention to the principles they have lived by.
• Rules rarely solve a problem. If someone is cantankerous there is not much you can do about it.
• Some people need rules, and there are agencies that will give them to you. We desire to work with mature adults.

Principles of Family and Ministry

• Extremes are never good regardless of which direction they take.
• We stand on the KJV, but we don’t talk and fuss about it all the time.
• Ornery people are like egg-sucking dogs. You can’t break them of it. Two can’t walk together unless they are agreed.
• Two people working together can get more done than 100 who are divisive.
• If you have to demand subjection as a husband, father, or pastor, you likely are not loving as Christ loved.
• If you have to demand your position, you likely are not good at it.
• Live a balanced life between family and ministry.
• Enjoy life. God didn’t give it to you to persecute you. Laughter is ok and is good medicine.
• Don’t worry too much about what to put in a prayer letter. That should not be the motivation for your ministry.
• Those who require much of others in the end often prove they don’t require a great deal of themselves. We bark the loudest when we try to hide what we dislike in ourselves.
• Lead by principle, but by all means, be a leader.

Principles of Dress

• Modesty is always the key.
• Modesty is sometimes defined differently. We may have liberty but should never cause offense.
• A wise person knows who they work with. We must be all things to all people. Don’t aggravate a relationship by enforcing your liberty.
• It is better to accommodate another and not offend, so the work of the Lord can go on.
• We don’t delineate a great deal. We expect your pastor to do so. If you have specific questions we suggest you ask your pastor.
• If your liberty goes beyond where others are willing to go there is no cause to flaunt your liberty.
• You may be able to do as you want, but why would you want to offend?
• When you consider where to draw your line, consider others as well and respect them in your decision.

Principles of Godly Communication

• Always be gracious, kind, and forgiving.
• You don’t have to say every thought that comes to your mind.
• Be careful on social media and in the pulpit. Often it is not that God put it on your heart, but that you have it in your mind and want to get it off your chest.
• There are many ways to interpret a few sentences on social media. Absent of voice inflection, the look on your face, etc., it is easy to be misunderstood.
• Your first response to criticism is probably wrong. Let it rest overnight before you send a reply. Your epistle may need to be reduced to a sentence or two.

Principles of Testimony

• On our best days, we groan too much. Everything won’t be right most of the time.
• If you spend $20 at a restaurant, is what you will say about their mistake worth the testimony you will leave behind? Too often we say what we think because we desire compensation.
• What you do and say reflects on the Lord, your family, your church, and the entire body of Christ.
• Be careful what you say. If you get it wrong you won’t have peace until you go back and fix it. So do it right the first time.
• Be careful when trying to answer too many texts or emails at once. The speed of communication can catch up to you if you send the wrong message!
• On the day you feel most furious, wait a day before responding.

Principles of Preparation

• Regardless of whether you plan to retire, you will have lots of expenses when you get old. Be prepared.
• You are young and popular now. Don’t wait until you are old and forgotten to plan for your family.
• Owning a home is the greatest insurance and security a wife can have.
• It is just as spiritual to take care of your family when you are old as it is when you are young.
• The disciples walked by sight when Christ was here. They saw Him provide taxes and multiply bread for their dinner. But now that He is gone we must live by faith.
• We are responsible to make provisions. If we provide not for our own we have denied the faith.
• Evacuation preparation is more needed today than ever.

Questions and Answers
Danny Whetstone and John O’Malley

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What steps can we take to on Social Media to increase our exposure?

• Create good content and people will share it. It can take years.
• Some have said to be successful at something you must first spend 10,000 hours doing it.
• Find someone with a good social media presence, and get them to share your posts.
• Great content will eventually be found.

Is World Wide open to accepting more missionaries to the deaf?

• Absolutely! We are thrilled to have the Dundons with us.
• We are open to help people wherever the Lord leads them.

What should you do when you believe a church has dropped your support?

• Confirm that the support is stopped, and not just late.
• Tracking your monthly support list can help in this area.
• Ask your pastor’s guidance.
• Start with the assumption that grace should be applied.
• Give grace and seek to clarify. Perhaps after 2 or 3 months of no support, contact the pastor and ask if there is a problem of which you need to be aware.
• Remember that a church votes to support you and can also vote to stop supporting you. They do not owe you anything.

What would you do if your sending church makes it difficult to maintain a close relationship?

• Start with yourself. What can you do to be available at the level the church desires? Ask yourself what you have or have not done to cause the relationship to not be what you desire.
• Ask your pastor what relationship he desires with you.
• Keep the communication open. It is not just the pastor’s responsibility to communicate with you; you should also communicate with him.
• Ask your pastor if you can add another level to your relationship.
• Learn how to express your desire without being needy. Let the pastor shepherd your needs.
• Give your pastor your calendar.
• Realize we are all different. Your pastor may be more or less chatty than you.
• World Wide is collaborating on a book for sending pastors, called Shepherding a Missionary. We hope to make it available later this year.

What is World Wide’s position on music?

• We like it!
• Among our board members, you will find a wide variety. Not contemporary or country. Some are very conservative and some are more southern gospel. We are at home with anything in between.
• You don’t have to answer for another church’s music. Find what you are comfortable with and use it in your ministry.
• Don’t tell another pastor what to do in his church.

Where can those on deputation find out about missions conferences?

• Join our GroupMe conversation for deputation missionaries. Contact Jeremy Lockhart if you are not in that group.
• Use the IFBMT app. It has a collaborative calendar where people can share dates.
• Victory Baptist Press has an email list that often includes upcoming meetings.
• Talk to others on deputation. Your fellow missionaries are great resources.

How do you handle the awkward pause when you are out to eat with a pastor and the waiter asks if it is all together?

• Assume nobody owes you anything.
• Pause briefly to defer to the host out of etiquette; but if he delays, offer to pay. It’s ok to be a giver.
• Give the opportunity for the host to decide, but don’t assume the host will pay. Always be prepared to pay for yourself.
• I deserve hell. I’m not going. Anything after that is gravy.

What do you do if you visit a church and they do not contact you to tell you if they will support you?

• Accept the reality that they likely will not.
• They probably won’t contact you to tell you they are not supporting you. If they are going to support you, they know how to reach you.
• Wait at least three months before asking. It can take time for funds to start coming to the office.
• Pray every day that God will advise them whether or not to support you.
• Send a postcard to the pastor. Don’t seek support. Just let them know you are praying for them personally. Be careful not to use this as a marketing ploy.
• Send a letter to churches you have been in. Indicate that you are at 80% and would appreciate if they could reconsider supporting you.

Each year at Family Week, the daily sessions focus on our missions family, while the evening messages include the host church family. Four speakers are selected to challenge and encourage hearts for the cause of missions.

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Withhold Nothing from God
John O’Malley

In Genesis 22 we learn from Abraham to live a life that withholds nothing from God. When God wants to walk with you, just walk. When God wants to speak to you, listen. Don’t assume you already know the conclusion. If God’s plan differs from yours, go with His. He’ll take you farther than you can imagine and do more than you can dream. If you usually doubt, don’t. If you usually reserve something for self, don’t. God wants it all. When we reserve for ourselves we pay the price. If you usually worry, stop. If you wonder whether God can provide, don’t. He can. When faced with the tough questions, always answer in the “faith tense.” God Will.

I Have Learned to Rejoice
Bill Wingard

Paul emphasized joy and rejoicing to the Philippians. We can greatly rejoice in the Lord’s presence. Whatever comes our way, His presence will not be taken away. We can rejoice in His providence. We can rejoice in the Lord’s plenty. It is amazing what God can make to be plenteous in our lives, which we will never understand until we go through a valley. We can rejoice in the Lord’s power. We can rejoice in the Lord’s provision. Some of our greatest opportunities to serve the Lord come unexpectedly.

Divine Influence
Tim Daniel

In Luke 8 we see Jairus’ plea for divine intervention in the life of his daughter. Often people will flock to Christ when facing a real crisis. We must be available to them when they ask for help. As Christ began to go, He was immediately thronged by others seeking help. Jairus was likely frustrated by this, not realizing it was a divine delay. Jesus can do more than one thing at a time! All delays with Christ are only delays in our human mind. This seeming delay gave Jairus and his family cause to see divine interaction that would not have been possible otherwise. When you don’t understand what God is doing, He does!

Launch into the Deep
Danny Whetstone

Peter was tired. He had fished all night and had nothing to show. As Christ preached He was pushed by the crowds and needed to get farther out so He could be heard. He asked Peter to launch into the deep. Imagine the message Peter heard that day! Peter knew how, when, and where to fish. Yet he caught nothing until he followed Christ’s command. Whatever he heard that day made him willing to forsake his boats, nets, and fish. What does it take to launch into the deep? It takes faith. Peter’s confidence was not in catching fish but in Christ’s word. We must have the confidence to get off the shore, launch into the deep, and follow Christ. It takes surrender. Peter understood fishing but had no idea where Christ was leading. It takes unity. Peter realized he could work together with others and have a great catch, or do it his own way and lose everything. It takes prayer. If prayer does nothing else, it confesses that you can’t do it alone. It takes a burden. We must be willing to weep for the lost. We must be willing to take on new challenges. On the very best fishing day, Peter left all and followed the Lord. Three years later Peter found himself back where he started. Another night on the sea with no fish to show for it, until he heard the Lord’s instruction. You too will be in places where you work with seemingly no success. The fish you are looking for may be under the boat. Joy comes in the morning. We must be dissatisfied with shallow water, and launch out into the deep to experience God’s blessings.